Sexual harassment is a legal term that defines the terms of "what is" harassment and discrimination in the workplace.
"Unwelcome sexual advances requests for sexual favors and other verbal or physical conduct of a sexual nature constitutes sexual harassment when submission to or rejection of this conduct explicitly or implicitly affects an individual's employment, unreasonably interferes with an individual's work performance or creates an intimidating, hostile or offensive work environment.
Sexual harassment can occur in a variety of circumstances, including but not limited to the following:
| Sexual Harassment | Flirting | |
|---|---|---|
| feels bad | feels good | |
| one-sided | reciprocal | |
| feels unattractive | feels attractive | |
| is degrading | is a compliment | |
| feels powerless | in control | |
| power-based | equality | |
| negative touching | positive touching | |
| unwanted | wanted | |
| illegal | legal | |
| invading | open | |
| demeaning | flattering | |
| sad/angry | happy | |
| negative self-esteem | positive self-esteem |
Originally appeared in USA Today